Do I Ever Cross Your Mind???

Do you ever find yourself reminiscing over a past flame and asking "what if"?  Well it seems that my friends and I had this in common over the last few days.  It seems that we have all been thinking back on our dating past/present and thinking about the people that have influenced us.  After catching myself deep in thought over a particular individual a shocking thought appeared in my mind... Does he ever think about me?  It's a fair question, a lot of times we can focus so much of our attention on someone else and the think very little about whether they are worried about us.  Perhaps we don't like to think about it because we will be faced with the fact that maybe they don't think about us at all.  It can be depressing when you think that no one is out there thinking about you as much as you think about them.  You could have spent many restless nights wondering what the outcome would've been if you would've asked the person out, told them how you felt, or just done something different.  The fact is that we can become overwhelmed with the 'what if'.  If given the chance I can guarantee that everyone would've done something different.  We must all remember that we did what we thought was best at the time and we have to live with our decisions.  Everyone can look like a genius when staring at things in hindsight, but in order to live your life to its fullest potential you can not spend too much time in the past.  Besides, even if the person you are thinking about isn't thinking of you, it doesn't mean that someone else special isn't.